
A parent should reach for this book when their teenager is navigating the slow and agonizing process of a loved one on life support. This poignant story follows Ellis, whose father is in a coma after a tragic accident. It captures the unique limbo of grief where a person is physically present but emotionally gone. Kekla Magoon masterfully balances the heavy reality of medical decisions with the everyday pressures of high school, friendships, and first love. Parents will appreciate the book's honest, secular approach to end-of-life care and its validation of the anger and confusion that often accompany long-term family crises. It is a deeply empathetic choice for ages 12 and up.
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The book deals directly and realistically with death and the ethics of life support. It is a secular treatment of the topic, focusing on medical reality and the emotional toll on the survivors. The resolution is realistic and bittersweet, emphasizing the necessity of letting go.
A mature middle or high schooler who is facing a similar 'waiting room' style of grief, or a teen who prefers character-driven, realistic fiction that doesn't shy away from difficult ethical questions.
Parents should be aware that there are frank discussions about removing life support. The book is safe to read cold, but it will provoke deep thoughts about mortality. A parent might see their child withdrawing or becoming hyper-focused on trivial tasks (like list-making) while a family member is seriously ill. It is for the teen who says 'I'm fine' when they are clearly drowning.
Younger teens (12-14) will likely focus on Ellis's social dynamics and the sadness of the dad's condition. Older teens (15-17) will better grasp the complex mother-daughter tension regarding the medical 'right to die' debate.
Unlike many 'grief books' that focus on the aftermath of death, this story explores the 'before' period: the agonizing limbo of having a parent who is technically alive but will never recover.
Ellis is a high school student living in a state of suspended animation. Her father is on life support following a car accident, and her mother is nearing the difficult decision to let him go. Ellis copes by making lists, specifically 37 things she loves, while navigating a strained relationship with her mother, a supportive best friend, and a blossoming romance with a girl named Maya.
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