A Dip of the Antlers

Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the subtle, often painful dynamics of playground hierarchies or the pressure to fit in by following a charismatic leader. Set in a relatable school environment, this story explores the thin line between friendship and peer pressure, and the courage required to step away from a group that demands conformity over kindness. It speaks directly to the child who feels like an outsider or who is currently questioning their loyalty to a group that has begun to treat others poorly. While written in the late 1970s, the emotional core of Sam McBratney's story remains deeply relevant for readers aged 9 to 13. It captures the specific anxiety of social stakes and the quiet shame of being a bystander. Parents can use this book to open a dialogue about the difference between being a good friend and being a follower, making it an excellent choice for navigating the transition into middle school social circles.