Reach for this book when your child is starting to notice they have different traditions than their peers and is struggling with the 'fear of missing out' during religious observances. It is a gentle, realistic look at a Muslim girl named Leena who wants to fast for Ramadan but also desperately wants to fit in at a friend's pony-themed birthday party. The story beautifully captures the physical and emotional challenge of self-discipline alongside the desire for social belonging. Appropriate for children ages 5 to 9, the book validates the difficulty of being the 'only one' in a group while celebrating the personal pride that comes from honoring one's identity. Parents will appreciate the soft pastel illustrations and the supportive, non-pressuring way Leena's family encourages her faith. It provides a perfect bridge for discussing how we can stay true to our values even when it feels hard or lonely.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book addresses religious identity and the feeling of 'otherness' in a secular environment. The approach is direct and realistic. It acknowledges that fasting is physically difficult for a child without being melodramatic. The resolution is hopeful and focuses on internal pride and community support.
An elementary school student (grades K-3) who is beginning to participate in religious or cultural fasts, or any child who has felt like they have to choose between their family traditions and a social event.
The book can be read cold. The author's note at the end is excellent for non-Muslim parents to read first so they can better explain the hijab and the significance of Ramadan to their children. A parent might see their child looking longingly at others' snacks or expressing frustration that their 'rules' make them feel different or left out.
Younger children (5-6) will focus on the 'fairness' of not getting to eat the cake. Older children (8-9) will better grasp the nuance of self-discipline and the internal conflict of wanting to be like everyone else.
Unlike many holiday books that focus only on the celebration, this one centers on the internal struggle of a child trying to balance two different worlds: her religious home life and her secular social life.
Leena, a young Muslim girl in the U.S., decides she is old enough to try fasting for a day during Ramadan. Her plans are complicated when she is invited to a friend's birthday party on that same day. The story follows her as she navigates the temptation of party food and the physical exhaustion of fasting while trying to have fun with her non-Muslim friends. Ultimately, she receives support from her family and an unexpected gesture of respect from her friend's mother.
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