
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is navigating a complex relationship with someone who is struggling emotionally or dealing with mental health challenges. It is a profound resource for the teen who feels responsible for 'fixing' others or who is learning that love, while powerful, cannot always cure another person's pain. The story follows Leigh, a high schooler who moves to support his stepsister after a family loss, only to find himself deeply invested in the well-being of her troubled best friend, Maia. This is a mature, realistic exploration of blended families, grief, and the boundaries of empathy. It is best suited for older teens (14 and up) due to its heavy themes and sophisticated emotional landscape. Parents will value how the book validates the urge to help while gently teaching the necessity of self-preservation and letting go.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe story is set in the aftermath of the death of a parent (off-page).
Teenage romance and emotional intimacy.
Explores the gray area of when helping someone becomes harmful to oneself.
The book addresses grief, mental illness, and depression with a stark, secular realism. There are no easy fixes or magical recoveries. The resolution is realistic and somewhat bittersweet, emphasizing that while people can be loved, they cannot always be managed or saved.
A thoughtful 16 or 17 year old who is the 'caretaker' in their friend group, or a teen who is currently dating someone struggling with mental health and needs to see their own experience mirrored without being patronized.
Parents should be aware that the book deals with heavy emotional manipulation and the weight of depression. It is best read after a conversation about emotional boundaries. A parent might notice their teen becoming emotionally drained by a friend's crisis or perhaps a teen who is neglecting their own needs to keep someone else afloat.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the romance and the drama of the high school move. Older teens (17+) will better grasp the nuance of the 'savior complex' and the difficult lesson of letting go.
Unlike many YA novels that romanticize the idea of 'saving' a partner, Freymann-Weyr offers a grounded, unsentimental look at the limits of human intervention in the face of another's internal struggle.
Leigh moves to a new town to support his stepsister, Milly, following the death of her father. While integrating into this blended family dynamic, he meets Milly's magnetic but deeply troubled friend, Maia. The narrative focuses on Leigh's attempt to protect Maia from her own self-destructive tendencies and the realization that his devotion might not be enough to change her trajectory.
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