
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is grappling with the isolating aftermath of a sudden tragedy or struggling with intense survivor's guilt. Following fifteen-year-old Jenna after a horrific car accident that killed her mother, the story explores the 'raw' reality of post-traumatic stress and the dangerous ways young people try to numb their pain. This is a heavy, sophisticated look at grief that doesn't offer easy answers, making it appropriate for older teens who need to see their complex, messy emotions reflected. Parents might choose this to validate a child's feelings of being 'broken' while opening a door to discuss healthy versus destructive coping mechanisms.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepiction of a teenager using prescription pills to numb emotional pain.
A relationship with an older, manipulative boy that involves emotional intensity.
The protagonist engages in dishonest and risky behaviors as coping mechanisms.
The book deals directly and intensely with death, grief, and PTSD. It includes depictions of drug use (pills), self-harming impulses, and the grooming-adjacent behavior of an older love interest. The approach is secular and psychological. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, but it emphasizes that healing is a long, non-linear process rather than a cured state.
A mature 15 to 17-year-old who feels misunderstood in their grief. This reader likely feels that standard 'sympathy' is shallow and is looking for a story that acknowledges how ugly and angry loss can feel.
Parents should preview the scenes involving drug use and the power dynamics between Jenna and Crow. The book is best read by teens who have some emotional support system in place, as it can be a Mirror Book for those in active crisis. A parent might see their child withdrawing completely, engaging in uncharacteristic risk-taking, or becoming obsessed with a new, questionable friend as a way to escape pain.
Younger teens (14) may focus on the romance and the tragedy of the accident, while older teens (17-18) will better grasp the nuances of the psychological dissociation and the metaphor of 'the raw.'
Unlike many YA novels that romanticize the 'bad boy' savior, Oates uses Crow to highlight Jenna's vulnerability and the dangers of looking for external fixes to internal trauma.
Jenna Abbott is the sole survivor of a car accident on the Tappan Zee Bridge that claimed her mother's life. Now living with her aunt and uncle, Jenna is physically scarred and emotionally shattered. She enters a 'raw' state of existence, attempting to numb her trauma through risky behavior and a relationship with a magnetic, potentially dangerous older boy named Crow. The story follows her journey from self-destruction toward a tenuous, hard-won survival.
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