
A parent might reach for this book when their neurodivergent child is struggling with the anxiety of a best friend moving away. It centers on Alex, an autistic ten-year-old whose world is turned upside down by this big change. He finds comfort in his special interest: observing insects and recording them in his "Book of Small Wonderful Things." The story gently follows his journey of processing his grief, navigating social anxiety at school, and cautiously opening up to a potential new friend who moves in next door. This hopeful and affirming story is perfect for sensitive readers aged 8 to 12. It provides authentic representation of an autistic child's inner world, validating their feelings and showing that it's possible to find courage and connection even when things feel scary.
The book's primary focus is on neurodivergence (autism and anxiety). The approach is direct, secular, and written from an #OwnVoices perspective, presenting Alex's traits not as deficits but as his way of being. The resolution is deeply hopeful and realistic: Alex doesn't magically overcome his anxiety, but he develops new coping strategies and successfully forms a new friendship on his own terms.
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Sign in to write a reviewAn autistic child aged 9-12 who needs to see their internal experience reflected authentically and positively. Also, any sensitive, nature-loving child who is struggling with a friend moving away, social anxiety, or the general feeling of being different. It's an excellent mirror book for a neurodivergent reader and a window book for their neurotypical peers.
No prep is needed; the book can be read cold. It's a fantastic conversation starter about empathy and how different people experience the world. Parents could be prepared to discuss why Alex finds comfort in routine and facts, and how his way of making friends might look different from someone else's. A parent hears their child say, "Everyone will forget me," or, "I'll never have another friend," after learning a close friend is moving. They may observe the child withdrawing, becoming more rigid in their routines, or hyper-focusing on a hobby as an escape from big feelings.
A younger reader (8-9) will connect strongly with the universal feeling of losing a best friend and will be fascinated by the insect facts. An older reader (10-12) will appreciate the nuanced portrayal of Alex's anxiety, his internal monologue about social rules, and the authenticity of his autistic experience. They will understand the courage it takes for him to make small steps toward a new friend.
Unlike many books on friendship that focus on external drama, this book's strength is its quiet, internal focus. The authentic #OwnVoices portrayal of autism is central, and the use of a special interest (insects) as a genuine coping mechanism and a bridge to new friendship is beautifully and specifically rendered. It champions a gentle, personal path to resilience.
Ten-year-old Alex, who is autistic, is devastated to learn his best friend is moving across the country. He retreats into his special interest, entomology, using his "Book of Small Wonderful Things" to document insects and cope with his overwhelming anxiety. When a new girl, Charlie, moves in next door and shows an interest in him and his bugs, Alex struggles to navigate the potential for a new friendship while grieving the loss of his old one. The narrative is a quiet, internal journey of Alex learning to manage his feelings about change and slowly making space for a new connection.
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