
Reach for this book when your teenager feels like an outsider or is grappling with a secret that makes them feel 'different' from their peers. While the specific focus is on the Iranian-American experience and the legal complexities of being undocumented, the emotional core speaks to any teen navigating the gap between their private family life and their public school persona. Sara Saedi uses humor and her own teenage diary entries to normalize the 'cringe' of puberty while tackling high-stakes fears of deportation. It is a brilliant choice for building empathy and helping teens see that their most 'embarrassing' or stressful experiences can be met with resilience and wit. Parents will appreciate how it balances heavy political realities with the universal, lighter drama of high school life.
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Sign in to write a reviewDiscussions of xenophobia and the political climate regarding Middle Eastern immigrants.
Themes of fear regarding family separation and deportation.
The book deals directly with the fear of deportation, the legal complexities of immigration, and the history of the Iranian Revolution. These are handled with a secular, realistic lens. While the stakes are high, the tone remains conversational and frequently humorous.
A high school student who enjoys humorous memoirs like those by Mindy Kaling or Trevor Noah, but who is also looking for a story that reflects the specific anxieties of first-generation or immigrant life.
Parents should be aware that the book includes honest discussions of puberty, including mentions of periods and waxing, as well as some mild swearing and references to teenage parties. It is very approachable and can be read cold. A parent might pick this up after hearing their child express deep anxiety about 'fitting in' or after a classroom discussion about immigration policy that left their child feeling confused or vulnerable.
Middle schoolers will gravitate toward the 'diary entry' format and the humor of Saedi's social mishaps. High schoolers will better grasp the political gravity and the systemic hurdles of the US immigration system.
Unlike many immigration stories that focus solely on the trauma of the journey, this book focuses on the 'after': the long, mundane, and often funny reality of living a normal American life under the shadow of legal uncertainty.
Sara Saedi recounts her childhood and adolescence in California as an undocumented immigrant from Iran. The narrative follows her journey from discovering her legal status at age thirteen to eventually obtaining her green card in her twenties. Along the way, she balances the 'normal' pressures of American high school (prom, acne, dating) with the constant, underlying fear that her family could be deported at any moment.
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