
A parent might reach for this book when their thoughtful, older child is struggling with the news of a new sibling. Anastasia Krupnik is a ten-year-old girl who loves making lists and writing poetry. Her world is orderly until her parents announce a new baby is on the way, sending her into a tailspin of jealousy and anger. This humorous and heartfelt classic explores the complex, often contradictory, emotions of growing up, from family love and frustration to self-identity. For ages 8-12, it's a perfect choice to validate a child's "negative" feelings about major life changes and to open a conversation about how love can coexist with jealousy and fear.
Aging and cognitive decline are handled directly and gently through Anastasia's relationship with her grandmother. The approach is secular and focuses on Anastasia's observations and emotional reactions. The core topic of a new sibling is also addressed directly, validating Anastasia's authentic feelings of anger and jealousy. The resolution is hopeful, showing her capacity to love and accept the new baby.
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Sign in to write a reviewA bright, introspective 8 to 11-year-old who is preparing for the arrival of a new sibling and feeling conflicted about it. It is also perfect for a child who feels their own "big feelings" are often misunderstood, especially kids who process their world through writing or structured thinking.
The book can be read cold. However, parents should be prepared to discuss Anastasia's intense negative feelings about the baby, which are portrayed as normal. Her blunt observations about her grandmother's nursing home (e.g., the smells, the residents' behaviors) might also be a gentle entry point for conversations about aging. A parent has just announced a pregnancy and their older child reacts with anger, withdrawal, or statements like, "You won't love me anymore," or "I don't want a new baby."
A younger reader (8-9) will latch onto the humor and the central conflict of the new baby, finding Anastasia's frustration highly relatable. An older reader (10-12) will better appreciate the nuanced humor, the witty dialogue, Anastasia's struggles with her identity as a poet, and the poignant undertones of her grandmother's aging.
Unlike many new-sibling books that focus on simple reassurance, this novel honors the intellectual and emotional complexity of an older child's experience. Anastasia's anger is not treated as a problem to be solved, but a valid emotion to be explored. The use of her lists as a narrative device provides a unique and relatable window into a pre-teen's mind, making it a standout for its wit and emotional honesty.
Ten-year-old Anastasia Krupnik, an aspiring poet, uses lists of her favorite and least favorite things to navigate the world. Her organized life is thrown into chaos when her parents announce they are expecting a baby boy. Anastasia reacts with anger and jealousy, feeling replaced and misunderstood. Throughout the book, she grapples with her changing family, a first crush, her evolving relationship with her grandmother who is in a nursing home, and her own burgeoning identity as a writer. The story culminates with the birth of the baby, whom Anastasia ultimately accepts and names.
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