
Reach for this book when your child is going through a phase of 'I want it now' or is struggling to see how their demands affect the people around them. It is a perfect choice for those days when patience is thin and every request feels like an urgent command. Through the story of Natasha and her grandmother, the book explores the exhausting nature of constant demands and the beauty of quiet, reciprocal love. It is particularly effective for children ages 4 to 8 who are developing their social-emotional awareness. Patricia Polacco uses a clever, magical role reversal to help children step outside themselves. When Natasha is left alone with a special doll, she finds herself on the receiving end of the same frantic, selfish behavior she was just displaying toward her grandmother. This gentle mirror allows children to recognize their own behavior without feeling lectured, ultimately highlighting the value of gratitude and the special bond between generations.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe story is secular and metaphorical. It deals with behavior and behavioral consequences through a magical lens. The resolution is hopeful and grounded in a warm, familial relationship.
An elementary schooler who is currently 'the center of their own universe' and needs a humorous but firm reminder that other people have needs and feelings too. It is great for kids who respond well to 'what if' scenarios.
The doll's behavior is intentionally frantic and could be slightly overwhelming for very sensitive children. Read with a sense of humor to keep the mood light. A parent might reach for this after a morning of 'I want' and 'give me' where the child has shown zero appreciation for the parent's efforts.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the magic of the doll coming to life and the physical humor of the chase. Older children (7-8) will more easily grasp the 'mirror' metaphor and recognize the doll's behavior as a reflection of Natasha's.
Unlike many 'manners' books that feel clinical or preachy, Polacco uses folklore-inspired magic and vivid illustrations to create a visceral experience of how draining selfishness can be.
Natasha is visiting her grandmother, Babushka, and is acting quite selfishly, demanding food and attention while her grandmother works. When Babushka goes to get water, she allows Natasha to play with a special doll on the mantle. To Natasha's shock, the doll comes to life and begins making relentless, high-speed demands for swings, snacks, and games. By the time Babushka returns, Natasha is exhausted and has gained a brand-new perspective on her own behavior.
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