Baby and Me

Reach for this book when your toddler is about to become a big brother or sister and is showing interest in, or perhaps a little apprehension about, the coming change. It is an ideal tool for parents who want to foster a sense of competence and agency in their older child before the new baby arrives. By focusing on the tangible ways a child can 'help,' the story shifts the narrative from what the child might lose (attention) to what they gain (a special role and responsibility). The story follows a young girl as she practices caregiving routines with her doll, mirroring the ways she will soon care for her new sibling. It touches on themes of empathy, gentle touch, and family belonging. Because it is short and uses simple language, it is perfectly suited for children aged 2 to 4 who learn best through repetition and play. This book serves as both a behavioral model and a comfort, reassuring the child that they are an essential part of the family's new rhythm.