
Reach for this book when your teenager is grappling with questions of identity, the feeling of not belonging at home, or the need to understand how two strangers can find common ground through shared pain. This verse novel follows Allison, a runaway fleeing an abusive father, who finds unexpected sanctuary in the home of Marla, an elderly woman living with dementia. Marla mistakes Allison for an old friend named Toffee, and Allison adopts the persona to survive. While the premise involves heavy themes of domestic abuse and cognitive decline, the story is ultimately a profound exploration of empathy and the families we choose. Written in sparse, evocative free verse, it provides a safe space for older teens to process complex emotions regarding family loyalty and self-worth. It is a sophisticated, realistic read that validates the experience of feeling invisible while offering a path toward healing and independence.
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Sign in to write a reviewDeals with the loss of identity in dementia and the reality of being an unhoused youth.
Occasional strong language consistent with a YA contemporary setting.
The protagonist occupies a house and adopts a false identity to survive.
The book handles domestic abuse, neglect, and dementia with a raw, secular realism. There is no magical cure for Marla's condition, and Allison's father remains a looming, dangerous threat. The resolution is realistic and bittersweet: it emphasizes survival and self-agency rather than a perfect 'happily ever after.'
A mature 15 or 16-year-old who appreciates poetic language and is interested in the complexities of the human mind. It is perfect for a student who feels misunderstood by their family or who has a close relationship with a grandparent facing health challenges.
Parents should be aware of the descriptions of physical abuse (flashed back to) and the reality of homelessness. Reading a few poems mid-book will give a sense of the heavy emotional atmosphere. A parent might notice their child becoming withdrawn or expressing a desire for total independence. They may see the child reading books with heavy themes or showing intense interest in social justice and the welfare of others.
A 14-year-old will focus on the 'escape' and the suspense of getting caught. An 18-year-old will more likely connect with the nuanced psychological toll of dementia and the philosophical questions of identity.
Crossan's use of free verse turns a potentially grim story into a lyrical, fast-paced experience. It is unique in its portrayal of an intergenerational friendship where both parties are equally vulnerable.
Allison has escaped her father's physical abuse and has nowhere to go. She breaks into an empty-looking house only to find Marla, a woman with late-stage dementia. Marla believes Allison is 'Toffee,' a friend from her past. Allison steps into the role, providing Marla with care and companionship while finding a roof over her head. As they navigate their days together, the lines between their realities blur, revealing deep truths about memory, trauma, and the human need for connection.
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