
A parent might reach for this book when their child is heartbroken because a close friend has gone away for the summer or seems to be having fun with new people. "Best Friends" beautifully captures the intense emotions of childhood friendship, especially the sting of feeling left behind. Kathy and Louise are inseparable until Louise goes on a summer trip. While Louise is having a wonderful time, Kathy feels lonely, sad, and even betrayed by her friend's happiness. This story validates a child's big feelings of jealousy and sadness, showing them that these emotions are normal and that true friendships can weather distance and change. It's a gentle, comforting read for children navigating the ups and downs of their first significant friendships.
The primary sensitive topic is intense emotional distress related to friendship changes. The approach is direct and realistic, focusing on the protagonist's feelings of loneliness, betrayal, and jealousy. There are no religious or metaphorical elements. The resolution is hopeful, reaffirming the strength of the friendship.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 5 to 8-year-old child whose best friend is away for the summer (at camp or on vacation) or has recently moved. It is perfect for a child who is feeling replaced or left out and is struggling to articulate their jealousy and sadness.
The book can be read cold, as the emotions are very clearly depicted. Parents could preview the pages showing Kathy's deep sadness and her failed attempts to replace Louise, as these scenes might be particularly poignant for a child in a similar situation. A parent overhears their child say, "My friend doesn't like me anymore" or "She's having fun without me" after seeing a social media post or getting a postcard. The child might be moping, withdrawn, or acting out due to a friend's absence.
A 5-year-old will connect with the simple feeling of missing a friend. An 8-year-old will grasp the more complex nuances of jealousy, comparison, and the fear that a friendship has changed forever. They may also appreciate the humor in Kathy's attempts to find a new friend.
Unlike many books about friendship problems, this one focuses specifically on the pain of temporary, physical distance rather than a conflict or fight. Kellogg's expressive, detailed illustrations do a remarkable job of conveying the emotional weight of Kathy's loneliness, making the internal feeling very visible.
Kathy and Louise are inseparable best friends who do everything together. When Louise goes away for the summer, she sends postcards about all her exciting new adventures, making Kathy feel lonely, jealous, and forgotten. Kathy tries to find a new best friend but no one compares. The story follows Kathy's sadness and her eventual, joyful reunion with Louise, where they discover their bond is still strong.
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