
A parent might reach for this book when their younger child feels frustrated or overshadowed by an older sibling, or when preparing a child for the arrival of a new baby. The story follows a little sister, Kate, who is convinced her bossy older sister is a bad witch. She humorously catalogs all of her sister's 'spells,' which are actually just typical big sister behaviors. The dynamic shifts entirely when their parents announce a new baby is on the way, and Kate realizes she is about to become a big sister herself. This classic story uses a clever metaphor to validate a younger child's feelings of jealousy and powerlessness. It offers a gentle, funny, and empowering way to open conversations about changing family roles and the complicated love between siblings.
The primary theme is sibling rivalry. The book addresses this through the direct, though metaphorical, lens of the protagonist's feelings. Kate's feelings of anger, jealousy, and frustration are presented as normal. The approach is entirely secular and humorous. The resolution is very hopeful, focusing on the positive transformation of a child's role within the family.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis book is perfect for a 5 to 7 year old child who is the youngest sibling and is struggling with feelings of being bossed around or ignored. It is also an excellent choice for a child in this age range who is about to become an older sibling for the first time and needs help processing the upcoming change in their identity and family position.
No preparation is needed. The book can be read cold. The 'witch' metaphor is simple enough for young children to understand as a stand in for 'meanness' or 'bossiness.' The illustrations and setting are from the early 1980s, which may feel dated to a parent, but the emotional core of the story is timeless. A parent has just announced a new pregnancy and their youngest is showing anxiety or jealousy. Alternatively, a parent is tired of constant bickering and hears their younger child complain, 'She's always so mean to me!' or 'It's not fair!'.
A younger child (age 5-6) will connect with the literal humor of the witchy accusations and Kate's feelings of frustration. An older child (age 7-8) will better grasp the metaphor and the significance of Kate's identity shift. They can more deeply appreciate the idea that perspective changes everything.
Many books on sibling rivalry focus on the older sibling's jealousy. This book uniquely centers the younger sibling's experience and feelings of powerlessness. Its resolution is particularly clever because it is not about the older sibling changing her behavior, but about the younger sibling gaining a new, empowered role that reframes the entire dynamic. The witch metaphor is a memorable and effective tool for validating a child's big feelings.
A younger sister, Kate, views her older sister, Emily, as a 'bad witch.' She narrates the various 'spells' Emily casts on her, such as making her disappear (by ignoring her) or turning her into a toad (by calling her names). This perception is the central metaphor for their sibling rivalry. The conflict and Kate's perspective shift dramatically when their mother announces she is pregnant. The realization that she, Kate, will soon be a big sister to a new baby reframes her understanding of her relationship with Emily, ending on a hopeful note of newfound identity and empowerment.
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