
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to navigate the complex feelings of curiosity, fear, or awkwardness that often arise when a classmate or peer is living with a serious illness. It is a vital tool for parents who want to help their children move past the initial shock of seeing a peer in a wheelchair or looking different due to medical treatment, fostering genuine empathy over surface-level pity. The story follows Dreenie as she gradually overcomes her trepidation toward Natalie, a classmate nicknamed Bluish because of her pale skin caused by leukemia. Through the developing bond between Dreenie, Natalie, and their friend Tuli, the book explores the nuances of school life, the reality of childhood illness, and the importance of seeing the person behind the diagnosis. It is deeply honest and emotionally resonant for children aged 9 to 12, offering a realistic rather than sugarcoated look at how friendships are forged in the face of fragility.
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Sign in to write a reviewA scene where Natalie's health wavers causes temporary distress for her friends.
The book deals directly with childhood cancer (leukemia) and physical disability. The approach is secular and very realistic: it does not offer a miracle cure. The resolution is hopeful in terms of friendship, but realistic about the ongoing nature of Natalie's medical struggle.
A thoughtful 10-year-old who has noticed a peer being treated differently due to a health condition and is unsure how to initiate a friendship or manage their own feelings of 'fragility' regarding others.
Parents should be prepared for the raw descriptions of Natalie's physical state. Read the chapter regarding Natalie's 'bad days' to prepare for questions about the physical toll of chemotherapy. A child might ask, 'Why is she that color?' or 'Is she going to die?' after seeing someone who is visibly ill, or a child might express guilt for being healthy while a friend is not.
Younger readers (9) may focus on the mechanics of the wheelchair and the 'scariness' of the hospital, while older readers (12) will better grasp the social dynamics between the three girls and the internal growth of Dreenie's empathy.
Unlike many 'illness' books that focus on the patient's family, Hamilton focuses entirely on the peer perspective and the specific social rhythms of a city classroom, making the disability a part of life rather than a tragic spectacle.
Dreenie is a ten-year-old girl in a New York City school who is fascinated and unsettled by Natalie, a girl with leukemia who uses a wheelchair and is so pale she looks blue. Along with her boisterous friend Tuli, Dreenie slowly bridges the gap of fear and difference to form a meaningful three-way friendship that acknowledges Natalie's illness without letting it define her.
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