
Reach for this book when your child expresses feeling like they don't belong in their current peer group or when they exhibit interests that don't align with traditional expectations. It is a gentle, humorous tool for validating a child's internal sense of self, even when that self contradicts the labels others have placed on them. The story follows Fabio, a dog who doesn't like typical dog things like fetching or barking. Instead, he loves the moonlight and the quiet grace of cats. Through Fabio's journey, the book explores themes of identity, the courage to be different, and the relief of finding your tribe. It is perfect for children aged 4 to 8 who are beginning to navigate social hierarchies and self-expression. Parents will appreciate how it normalizes the feeling of being an outsider while providing a joyful, affirming resolution that celebrates authenticity without requiring the character to change who they are.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with identity and the feeling of being 'born in the wrong body' or belonging to the wrong group. The approach is metaphorical, using the dog-as-cat trope to represent broader themes of gender identity or cultural misalignment. The resolution is hopeful and secular, focusing on family acceptance and personal joy.
A 6-year-old who feels out of sync with their peers, perhaps a child who prefers quiet play over roughhousing, or a child starting to ask questions about why they have to act a certain way because of how they look.
This book can be read cold. The reveal of Fabio's 'cat' behavior is the heart of the story and works best as a surprise. No sensitive warnings are necessary, though parents should be ready to discuss what it means to 'belong.' A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'I'm not like the other kids,' or witnessing their child feel exhausted by trying to 'perform' a specific role at school or in sports.
Younger children (4-5) will find the idea of a dog acting like a cat hilarious and absurdist. Older children (7-8) will more easily grasp the metaphor of social identity and the pressure of meeting family expectations.
Unlike many 'be yourself' books that focus on a unique talent, this book focuses on a fundamental shift in identity. It doesn't just say 'you're a unique dog,' it says 'it's okay if you feel you aren't a dog at all.'
Fabio is a dog who lives with a family that expects him to behave like a typical canine. However, Fabio is aloof, dislikes bones, and refuses to bark. One night, his owner Max follows him and discovers that Fabio sneaks out to a rooftop where he hangs out with a group of cats, acting exactly like one of them. The family eventually accepts Fabio for who he is: a dog who identifies as a cat.
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