
Reach for this book when your eldest child is struggling to find the 'point' of a new baby who seemingly only eats, cries, and takes up space. It is a perfect choice for children expressing outward frustration or displacement after a sibling's arrival, offering a safe space to acknowledge those 'I wish they weren't here' feelings without judgment. Through Felix's humorous attempts to find a way to return his sister, the story validates the very real anger and loneliness that can come with a changing family dynamic. Rather than preaching about love, it uses a lighthearted, relatable approach to show how a baby eventually becomes a person and a friend. It is an ideal read-aloud for children ages 3 to 6 who need to see their complex emotions mirrored with a touch of wit and a reassuring, sweet conclusion.
The book handles sibling rivalry in a secular, realistic, and highly humorous way. While the idea of 'getting rid' of a baby might seem intense, it is presented through a clearly metaphorical and playful lens that honors a child's internal monologue. The resolution is hopeful and grounded in the developing bond between siblings.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 4-year-old big brother or sister who has been acting out or asking when the baby is 'going home.' It is for the child who is past the initial excitement and into the reality of sharing their world.
Read this cold. The humor is the medicine here. Parents should be prepared to laugh at Felix's outrageous ideas to signal to the child that their big feelings aren't scary or 'bad.' A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'I don't like the baby,' or 'Can we put her in the trash?'
A 3-year-old will enjoy the physical humor and the 'bye-bye' repetition. A 5 or 6-year-old will deeply relate to Felix's logic and the social complexity of losing their 'only child' status.
Unlike many 'new baby' books that focus on how the older sibling can 'help' with the baby, this book focuses on the baby earning their keep by being interesting. It places the agency on the sibling bond rather than the caretaking role.
Felix is unimpressed by his new baby sister. She doesn't do anything fun, she smells, and she takes all the attention. He explores various imaginative ways to 'return' her or find her a new home. However, through a series of small, charming interactions, the baby manages to show a spark of personality and utility, leading Felix to realize that she might actually be a valuable addition to the team.
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