
Reach for this book when your child is navigating the shifting sands of middle school social circles or feels the pressure to trade an old, loyal friendship for a chance at being cool. It is an essential read for the child who feels visible for all the wrong reasons: perhaps due to a physical difference or being the target of a schoolyard nickname: while struggling to find their place in a world of rigid social hierarchies. Ella and Z are best friends and social outcasts. Ella has a unique birthmark on her face that has earned her the nickname Camo Girl, while Z lives in a fantasy world to cope with his own challenges. When a popular new boy enters the scene, Ella is offered a ticket into the in-crowd, but it comes at the cost of leaving Z behind. This story beautifully explores the nuance of loyalty, the pain of being different, and the courage it takes to define your own identity rather than letting a label do it for you.
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The book deals with physical differences (Ella's birthmark) and neurodivergence/mental health (Z's escapism) in a direct, realistic manner. It also touches on racial identity and socioeconomic status. The resolution is grounded and hopeful, focusing on self-acceptance rather than a magical fix for the characters' problems.
A 10 to 12 year old who is beginning to feel embarrassed by their younger interests or unconventional friends because they want to fit in with the popular crowd.
Parents should be prepared for depictions of schoolyard bullying and the use of the derogatory nickname Camo Girl. It can be read cold, but discussing the concept of social capital beforehand is helpful. A parent might see their child coming home quiet and ashamed after being teased, or notice their child starting to treat a formerly close friend with coldness to impress others.
Younger readers (8-9) focus on the sadness of the bullying and the coolness of the new friend. Older readers (11-12) will deeply feel the social anxiety and the moral weight of Ella's choices.
Unlike many middle grade books where the protagonist is a pure victim, Ella is forced to examine her own capacity for cruelty and social climbing, making it a much more honest look at middle school dynamics.
Ella is a middle schooler with a large birthmark on her face, making her a target for the nickname Camo Girl. Her only friend is Z, an eccentric boy who believes he is from another planet. When Bailey, a popular boy who is also Black, joins their class, he pulls Ella into his circle. Ella must navigate the intoxicating allure of popularity while realizing that the popular kids are cruel to Z, forcing her to decide what kind of person she wants to be.
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