
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling with the quiet, lingering weight of grief or a strained relationship with a surviving parent after a family tragedy. Through the rhythmic and accessible medium of verse, the story follows Carolina as she navigates her freshman year of high school while mourning the loss of her father and sister. It beautifully captures the feeling of being frozen in time while the world moves on. This is an excellent choice for a child who finds traditional prose overwhelming during times of emotional stress. It offers a secular, realistic, and ultimately hopeful roadmap for healing family bonds that have been frayed by shared sorrow. Parents will appreciate how it validates the messiness of teenage emotions without being overly clinical or dark.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepicts a mother's severe clinical depression and emotional withdrawal.
The book deals directly with the death of immediate family members. The approach is secular and highly realistic, focusing on the sensory and social ripples of grief rather than theological explanations. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in the reality that healing is an ongoing process.
A 13 or 14-year-old girl who feels like she has to be the 'strong one' in the family or who feels invisible because a parent is consumed by their own mourning.
Read the poems 'The Accident' and 'The Anniversary' to gauge the emotional intensity. The book can be read cold, but be prepared for conversations about how the family in the book handles memories. A parent might see their child withdrawing into their room, writing extensively in a journal, or exhibiting a 'flat' affect where they seem to be going through the motions of school without real joy.
Younger teens (12-13) will relate to the social pressures of starting high school while feeling 'different.' Older teens (15-16) will better appreciate the nuanced depiction of the mother's depression and the craft of the verse.
Unlike many grief novels that focus on the immediate aftermath, this explores the 'long tail' of loss and the specific difficulty of navigating milestones like the first day of high school without a loved one.
Carolina is beginning her freshman year of high school, a milestone marked by the painful absence of her father and her sister, Jude, who died in a plane crash. The narrative focuses on her internal landscape as she balances new friendships and a budding romance against the backdrop of her mother's deep, withdrawn depression. As the one-year anniversary of the accident approaches, Carolina must find a way to bridge the silence between herself and her mother to ensure they both survive their shared loss.
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