
Reach for this book when your child feels like they do not fit the traditional mold of 'pretty' or 'good,' or when they are struggling with self-acceptance. William Steig's classic story follows Shrek, a hideous but happy monster who ventures into the world to find his destiny. Unlike many fairy tales that reward beauty and kindness, this story celebrates a protagonist who is unapologetically himself, finding love with a princess who is just as 'ugly' as he is. It is a powerful antidote to perfectionism. Suitable for children ages 4 to 10, it uses absurdist humor to teach that everyone deserves a happy ending. Parents will appreciate how it flips fairy tale tropes on their heads to emphasize that true satisfaction comes from finding where you belong and who appreciates your unique 'warts.'
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Sign in to write a reviewShrek enjoys being 'repulsive' and doing 'damage,' which is satirical but requires context.
The book deals with identity and social standards in a metaphorical and highly absurdist way. There are no religious overtones. While Shrek is 'mean,' the tone is so fantastical that it feels harmless. The resolution is hopeful and celebratory of non-conformity.
A child who is a 'square peg in a round hole' or who is currently obsessed with 'gross-out' humor but needs a deeper message about self-worth. It is perfect for a child who feels pressured to be perfect or conventionally well-behaved.
Read this book cold to capture the rhythm of Steig's sophisticated vocabulary. Note that Shrek is intentionally 'nasty,' so some parents may want to discuss the difference between being yourself and being unkind to others. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say 'I'm ugly' or 'Nobody likes me because I'm different.'
Younger children (4-6) will delight in the slapstick grossness and the colorful, scribbly illustrations. Older children (7-10) will appreciate the satire of traditional fairy tales and the complex vocabulary.
Unlike the movie version, which makes Shrek a misunderstood hero with a heart of gold, the book Shrek is purely, happily monstrous. It is unique because it suggests that you don't have to change your nature to find love and happiness.
Shrek is a repulsive green monster who is kicked out of his parents' home to go out and do 'his share of damage.' Along his journey, he encounters a scolding witch, a knight, and various obstacles, all of which he overcomes with his sheer hideousness. After a series of encounters that reinforce his self-satisfaction, he meets a princess who matches him in ugliness. They fall in love and live 'horribly ever after.'
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