
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to navigate the confusing, often isolating aftermath of losing a parent or loved one. It is particularly helpful for children who feel like their internal reality does not match the expectations of the world around them. The story follows Rennie, a boy who sees things others don't and who must find his own way through the fog of grief while living with a grandfather he barely knows. It is a quiet, deeply empathetic exploration of honesty, family secrets, and the courage it takes to trust your own eyes when everyone else is telling you to look away. Schmatz handles the weight of mourning with a grounded, realistic touch that validates a child's complex emotions without being overly sentimental. It is an excellent choice for middle grade readers who appreciate stories that respect their intelligence and their capacity for deep feeling.
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Sign in to write a reviewRennie's visions of 'ghosts' or truths can be slightly unsettling for sensitive readers.
The book deals directly with the death of a parent and the resulting grief. The approach is secular and psychological, focusing on the internal landscape of the child. The resolution is realistic and hopeful: it doesn't 'fix' the grief, but it provides Rennie with the tools and connections to live with it.
A 10 to 12 year old who feels like an outsider or who is struggling with a recent loss. It's perfect for the quiet, observant child who prefers character driven stories over fast paced action.
Read the scenes involving Rennie's 'visions' to understand how the book uses them as a metaphor for neurodivergence or unique perception. It can be read cold, but discussing the 'circles' metaphor early on helps. A parent might notice their child becoming increasingly withdrawn, or perhaps the child has expressed that they feel 'crazy' or 'wrong' for how they are processing a loss.
Younger readers (9-10) will focus on the mystery of the family and the friendship with Rilla. Older readers (12-13) will better grasp the nuances of Rennie's internal struggle and the complexities of his father's character.
Unlike many 'grief books' that focus on the event itself, this book focuses on the sensory and cognitive experience of being a 'different' kind of kid in the wake of tragedy.
After his father's sudden death, Rennie is sent to live with his estranged grandfather in a small town. Rennie has a unique way of perceiving the world, seeing 'circles' or truths that others miss, leading some to wonder about his mental health. As he navigates a new school and a budding friendship with a girl named Rilla, he uncovers layers of family secrets and learns that grief isn't a straight line, but a messy, circular process of uncovering the truth about those we lost.
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