
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is navigating the messy intersection of a first serious romance and the frightening emergence of mental health struggles. It is a vital resource for families witnessing a child struggle with erratic moods, or for those who want to foster empathy for peers living with bipolar disorder. The story follows Connor and Izzy, two artistic teens whose intense connection is tested when Izzy's behavior becomes increasingly unpredictable and dangerous. While the romance is central, the book serves as a realistic mirror for the toll mental illness takes on both the individual and their support system. It is best suited for older teens (14+) due to its raw exploration of mania, depression, and the complex reality that love cannot always fix a chemical imbalance. Parents might choose this to normalize difficult conversations about therapy, medication, and the necessity of boundaries in healthy relationships.
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Sign in to write a reviewCharacters engage in risky behaviors during manic episodes, including dangerous heights.
Standard contemporary YA profanity.
Intense emotional romance and some physical intimacy/kissing.
The book deals directly and realistically with bipolar disorder and mental health crises. The approach is secular and medical, focusing on the need for professional intervention rather than a romanticized 'love heals all' trope. The resolution is realistic and bittersweet, emphasizing recovery as a journey rather than a destination.
A 16-year-old who is a 'rescuer' by nature and needs to learn that they are not responsible for a partner's mental health, or a teen who feels 'too much' and is looking for a reflection of their own internal chaos.
Parents should be aware of scenes involving reckless behavior, talk of self-harm, and a scene where Izzy puts herself in significant physical danger. It is best read alongside a teen to discuss the boundaries of friendship and the importance of seeking adult help in emergencies. A parent might see their teen becoming isolated or staying up all night to 'help' a friend in crisis, or witness a sudden shift in their own child's personality that mirrors Izzy's erratic behavior.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the 'star-crossed lovers' aspect, while older teens (17-18) will likely better grasp the gravity of the medical diagnosis and the necessity of Connor's eventual detachment.
Unlike many YA romances that romanticize mental illness as a quirk, Reed's work is unflinchingly honest about the exhaustion and fear that accompany it.
Connor and Izzy meet in their high school photography class and fall into a whirlwind, artistic romance. As they grow closer, Izzy begins to exhibit symptoms of bipolar disorder, swinging from high-energy mania to crushing depression. Connor tries to be her anchor, but he eventually realizes that her health is beyond his control. The story is told through a mix of narrative, emails, and artistic reflections.
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