
A parent would reach for this book when their child is experiencing their first crush or struggling to balance a hectic schedule of extracurriculars and family changes. It is particularly useful for kids who feel the pressure of high expectations, whether on the gymnastics mat or in their social circles. The story follows Lauren as she navigates an awkward crush on her gymnastics coach while her mother is busy running a political campaign. This realistic chapter book explores themes of embarrassment, team loyalty, and the realization that adults are human too. It is perfectly suited for children ages 8 to 12 who are entering the 'tween' phase where emotions become more complex. Parents will appreciate how it validates the intensity of childhood feelings while gently steering the protagonist toward self-reflection and personal responsibility.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with the mild emotional neglect a child might feel when a parent is preoccupied with a career (her mother's campaign). The approach is secular and realistic. The 'crush' on an authority figure is handled with professional boundaries and sensitivity, leading to a realistic resolution where Lauren learns to distinguish between admiration and romance.
An 11-year-old girl who is deeply involved in a competitive hobby and starting to feel the 'butterflies' of a first crush, but feels embarrassed to talk about it with her busy parents.
This book can be read cold. Parents may want to be ready to discuss the difference between healthy admiration for a mentor and a romantic crush. A parent might notice their child becoming unusually secretive about their feelings or acting out due to the pressure of 'doing it all' (school, sports, and family expectations).
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the gymnastics and the 'cooties' or embarrassment of a crush. Older readers (11-12) will better understand the nuance of the mother's political ambitions and the social hierarchy of the gym.
Unlike many sports books that focus only on the big game, this captures the specific 1990s intersection of female ambition, family dynamics, and the internal life of a pre-teen athlete.
Lauren is a dedicated gymnast whose life is becoming increasingly complicated. Her mother is distracted by a city council campaign, her friendships are shifting, and she has developed a confusing crush on her new coach, Mikhail. The narrative follows Lauren as she manages the physical demands of her sport alongside the emotional weight of her first real infatuation and the social drama of her gymnastics team.
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