
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to juggle the heavy expectations of being a perfect child, a loyal friend, and a supportive partner while managing their own mental health. It is a nuanced sequel that explores Darius Kellner's life back in Portland after his transformative trip to Iran. The story delves into the pressures of a first romantic relationship, the stress of high school sports, and the emotional toll of a family crisis. Parents will appreciate the honest, non-stigmatized portrayal of clinical depression and the realistic depiction of how teens navigate the messy intersection of cultural identity and modern American life. It is an excellent choice for opening a dialogue about emotional boundaries and the importance of self-care during times of change.
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Sign in to write a reviewSubtle microaggressions related to Darius's Persian heritage.
Some realistic teenage profanity.
The book deals directly and secularly with clinical depression, though it is treated as a managed part of life rather than a tragedy. It also explores sexual identity and the nuances of consent and emotional boundaries in a realistic way. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality, emphasizing that growth is a process.
A high schooler who feels like they are constantly performing for others or who struggles with the 'imposter syndrome' of being multiracial and queer in a space that doesn't always feel welcoming.
Parents should be aware of scenes involving teenage romance and discussions of physical intimacy (non-graphic but honest). The book can be read cold but benefits from knowing the backstory of the first novel. A parent might see their child becoming withdrawn or 'over-functioning' to please others while their own mental health slips. They might hear their teen expressing guilt over things they cannot control, like a parent's job loss.
Younger teens will focus on the romance and soccer drama. Older teens will resonate more deeply with the themes of professional failure, financial instability in the home, and the complex ethics of 'cancel culture' in social circles.
Unlike many YA sequels that focus on 'happily ever after,' this book bravely examines the reality that getting what you thought you wanted (a boyfriend, a team spot) doesn't automatically solve your internal struggles.
Darius Kellner is back from Iran and trying to live his best life. He has his first boyfriend, Landon, and a position on the varsity soccer team. However, life gets complicated when his grandfathers (Babou and Mamani) move in, his father loses his job, and he begins to question if his relationship with Landon is actually what he wants. He also deals with a teammate who is both a bully and a potential friend, forcing him to navigate complex social hierarchies.
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