
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the emotional tug-of-war of divorce or feeling like they have to choose between two different lives. It is especially helpful for children who feel like they are losing their sense of home when one parent lives far away. The story follows Dawn Schafer as she visits her father and brother in California, only to find herself torn between the sunny, familiar world she left behind and the new life and friends she has built in Connecticut. This realistic novel gently explores themes of belonging, the complexity of blended families, and the realization that growing up often means making difficult choices. Written for the 8 to 12 age range, it provides a safe space for middle grade readers to process feelings of homesickness and the fear of hurting a parent's feelings. It is a comforting choice for any child navigating the 'middle' of a family split.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book handles divorce and bicoastal family life in a very direct, secular, and realistic manner. The resolution is hopeful but acknowledges that there is no 'perfect' solution where everyone gets what they want, emphasizing that home is where your heart is currently rooted.
A 10-year-old girl who spends her summers or holidays with a non-custodial parent and feels a 'split identity' or guilt about enjoying one life more than the other.
No specific scenes require a preview, as the tone is consistently age-appropriate. Parents should be prepared to discuss the idea that loving one parent or place doesn't mean you love the other any less. A parent might see their child being unusually quiet after a phone call with their other parent, or hear the child say, 'I wish we all still lived together.'
Younger readers will focus on the fun travel and friendship aspects, while older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with the identity crisis and the social pressure Dawn feels from her peers.
Unlike many books where the move is forced upon the child, this story gives the protagonist the agency to choose where she lives, highlighting the maturity and the burden that comes with such a decision.
Dawn Schafer, a member of the Baby-Sitters Club, travels from her new home in Stoneybrook, Connecticut, back to her original hometown in California to visit her father and brother. While there, she is overwhelmed by nostalgia and the pressure from her old 'California girls' friends to move back permanently. The story focuses on her internal conflict: does she belong with her mother and friends in the East, or her father and brother in the West?
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