
Reach for this book if your child is grappling with the quiet isolation of grief, the stress of school bullying, or a long-term health challenge. It is especially effective for children who express themselves better through writing or art than through conversation. The story follows nine-year-old Max as he writes letters to his favorite author, D.J. Lucas, detailing his struggles with his father's death, an unnamed illness, and a local bully. As the two exchange postcards and drawings, a genuine bond forms that empowers Max to find his voice. Parents will appreciate the gentle, secular approach to heavy topics and the realistic portrayal of a single-mother household. It is a comforting, creative choice for kids aged 7 to 10 who need to see that even grown-ups have fears and that friendship can be found in unexpected places.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe father's death occurred prior to the book's start; discussed in retrospect.
Bullying scenes and the author's skydiving attempt.
The book deals directly with the death of a parent and childhood illness. The approach is secular and grounded in reality. There is no magical healing; instead, the resolution is hopeful and focuses on emotional resilience and the power of connection.
An elementary-aged child who feels like an outsider due to family circumstances or health issues. It is perfect for a sensitive child who enjoys drawing or journaling and may be struggling to communicate their feelings to the adults in their immediate life.
This book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss what the "unnamed illness" might be if the child asks, though the book keeps it vague to remain relatable to various conditions. A parent might choose this after seeing their child receive a mean note at school, seeing them withdraw following a loss, or noticing the child struggling to explain their sadness.
Younger readers (7-8) will focus on the fun of the letter-writing format and the bully conflict. Older readers (9-10) will pick up on the nuances of Max's grief and the parallel between Max's growth and the author's own fears.
Unlike many books about grief, this uses an epistolary (letter-writing) format that includes drawings, making it highly accessible for visual learners and reluctant readers.
Max is a nearly ten-year-old boy living with his mother and dealing with several heavy life layers: the recent death of his father, a chronic health condition that keeps him out of school, and a bully named Joe who targets him. He begins a year-long correspondence with D.J. Lucas, a children's book author. Through letters, postcards, and sketches, they share their daily lives. Max finds an outlet for his grief and fear, while D.J. shares her own anxieties about her writing career and even skydiving.
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