Dear Substitute

Reach for this book when your child is struggling with a change in routine or feels intense anxiety when their expectations for the day are upended. Whether it is a substitute teacher, a change in schedule, or a different caregiver, this story validates the frustration that comes when the 'right' way of doing things is replaced by someone else's 'new' way. The story follows a young girl who is deeply loyal to her regular teacher, Mrs. P., and finds herself increasingly annoyed by the substitute, Mrs. Fillmore, who does everything differently. Written in the form of a series of letters (some never sent), the book captures the internal monologue of a child who values precision and rules. It is perfect for children ages 4 to 8, especially those who might be described as 'rule-followers' or who struggle with transitions. By the end, the book gently nudges the reader toward the realization that different can sometimes be okay, or even fun, without dismissing the child's initial feelings of resentment. It is a helpful tool for modeling how to navigate 'change of plans' days with resilience.