
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with a shifting home life or feeling the weight of grown up secrets. Sweet Pea is navigating her parents' recent divorce, which includes the unusual arrangement of living in identical houses on the same street. This story beautifully addresses the messiness of maintaining loyalty to friends while managing big changes at home. It is a perfect choice for middle grade readers who need to see that it is okay to feel confused, make mistakes, and eventually find their own voice. Murphy balances humor with heart, making it a comforting read for children aged 8 to 12 who are learning that life does not have to be perfect to be good.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with divorce and shifting friendships in a direct, secular, and highly realistic manner. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: it does not promise a parental reunion, but rather a functional new normal.
A 10-year-old girl who feels like she has to be the 'bridge' between her two divorced parents or who feels the social pressure of changing middle school cliques.
Read cold. The book is very accessible, though parents should be ready to discuss why 'fixing' other people's problems through secrets (the advice letters) can backfire. A parent might see their child trying to over-manage their environment or acting as a mediator in adult conversations, indicating they are carrying too much emotional labor.
Younger readers will enjoy the humor of the identical houses and the 'secret identity' of the advice columnist. Older readers will resonate more with the nuance of the friendship fallout and the LGBTQ+ themes involving Sweet Pea's neighbor.
Unlike many divorce books that focus on conflict, this explores the 'uncanny' feeling of a civil divorce where things look the same but feel entirely different.
Patricia 'Sweet Pea' Downing is navigating life after her parents' divorce. Her father has moved into a house that is an exact replica of her mother's, right down the street. When her neighbor, the local advice columnist 'Miss Flora Mae,' goes out of town, Sweet Pea begins intercepting the mail and answering the letters herself. This leads to a series of complications involving her best friend, a former best friend, and her own evolving family dynamics.
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