
Reach for this book when your child is beginning to experience the dizzying, confusing, and often overwhelming physical sensations of a first crush. It is a perfect choice for the sensitive preteen who finds it difficult to put their feelings into words or who feels a sense of quiet panic when faced with new, unfamiliar emotions. Stevie is an eleven-year-old girl who loves facts because they are solid and dependable. However, when she starts feeling a physical flutter around her friend Chloe, she realizes that some things cannot be looked up in a typical encyclopedia. This gentle verse novel explores her internal journey from anxiety to self-acceptance. It is an incredibly soft and age-appropriate introduction to LGBTQ+ identity, focusing on the emotional experience rather than social or political labels. Parents will appreciate how the story models a healthy, supportive relationship between a child, her mother, and a trusted community figure like a librarian.
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Sign in to write a reviewStevie experiences significant anxiety and fear of the unknown.
The book deals with sexual identity and anxiety. The approach is direct but very soft and age-appropriate. It is secular and the resolution is overwhelmingly hopeful and affirming.
A quiet, introspective 10-year-old who might be feeling "different" or overwhelmed by middle-school crushes and needs to know that their feelings are normal, beautiful, and safe.
This book is safe to be read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss how physical feelings (like a racing heart) are connected to emotions. No specific scenes require previewing for content, but the librarian's role is a great talking point for trusted adults. A parent might notice their child becoming unusually withdrawn, researching topics about identity in secret, or expressing physical symptoms of anxiety related to school friendships.
Younger readers (9) will focus on the friendship and the physical feeling of having a crush. Older readers (12) will better appreciate the nuance of Stevie's internal monologue and the importance of finding one's place in the LGBTQ+ community.
Unlike many middle-grade books that focus on outward conflict or bullying, this is an internal, meditative verse novel that prioritizes the protagonist's emotional safety and the power of information.
Stevie is a girl who finds comfort in researching facts. When she develops feelings for her friend Chloe, she experiences physical anxiety (the "deepest breath") and a fear of the unknown. She visits the library to find answers and, with the gentle guidance of a librarian and the support of her mother, learns to name her feelings and embrace her identity.
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