
A parent might reach for this book when their family is navigating the complex ripple effects of a child or sibling coming out, especially in a traditional or rural setting. Told from the perspective of sixteen year old Parr, the story explores the shift in family dynamics when his older sister, Evie, falls in love with the local banker's daughter. It captures the tension between deep family love and the fear of social judgment. This is an excellent choice for parents looking to foster empathy in siblings and to discuss how class and community expectations impact our personal identities. It offers a realistic, grounded look at late-adolescent identity and the courage required to stand by one's family during times of change.
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Sign in to write a reviewFeatures a central romantic relationship between two young women.
Explores the pain of family estrangement and social judgment.
The book handles LGBTQ+ identity and rural prejudice directly and secularly. It does not shy away from the pain of rejection or the awkwardness of a family in transition. The resolution is realistic and bittersweet rather than a fairy-tale ending: it emphasizes personal integrity over easy community acceptance.
A high schooler who feels protective of a sibling or friend, or a teen living in a small town who is beginning to question the social hierarchies and prejudices of their community.
Parents should be prepared for depictions of social ostracization and some period-typical (1990s) attitudes regarding sexuality. It is best read with an understanding of the specific pressures of small-town life. A parent might see their own child struggling to defend a sibling at school or witness the tension of a family member being 'the talk of the town.'
Younger teens will focus on Parr's social survival at school, while older teens will better grasp the complex intersection of class, money, and power that complicates Evie and Patsy's relationship.
Unlike many contemporary YA novels, this book centers the sibling's perspective, providing a unique 'outside-in' look at coming out that focuses on the collateral beauty and difficulty for the entire family unit.
Set in a rural Missouri farming community, the story follows Parr Burrman as he watches his older sister, Evie, navigate her burgeoning relationship with Patsy Duff. Because Patsy is the daughter of the town's wealthy banker, the romance ignites both homophobic prejudice and deep-seated class resentment. The narrative focuses on the family's internal struggle to reconcile their love for Evie with their traditional values and the public scrutiny of their neighbors.
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