
Reach for this book when your child is navigating the high stakes of elementary school social hierarchies or struggling to find their footing with new responsibilities. This story follows Gavin, a young boy trying to balance his desire to fit in with the cool kids while managing the unexpected (and sometimes embarrassing) challenges of taking care of a very pampered dog. It is a perfect choice for children who feel the pressure of peer judgment or who are learning that true character often means making the right choice even when it is not the popular one. Parents will appreciate how the story validates the very real anxieties of third and fourth grade while modeling resilience and the value of genuine friendship over social status. It is a gentle, humorous, and highly relatable look at growing up and finding your own voice.
The book deals with bullying and social exclusion in a very direct, realistic manner. There is also a theme of parental expectations and the pressure to succeed in a new environment. The approach is entirely secular and the resolution is hopeful and realistic, focusing on self-acceptance.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 7 to 9 year old who is 'status conscious' or worried about how they are perceived at school. It is especially resonant for kids who feel they have to hide parts of their home life to fit in.
This is a safe 'read-cold' book. Parents may want to discuss the scene where Gavin initially ignores his true friend to impress the 'cool' kids. A parent might notice their child suddenly acting embarrassed by their family, hobbies, or pets, or expressing distress about a dominant personality in their peer group.
Younger readers (6-7) will focus on the humor of the dog's antics and the fear of the bully. Older readers (8-9) will more deeply internalize the social dynamics and the internal conflict Gavin feels about his reputation.
Karen English excels at capturing the specific, quiet nuances of suburban Black middle-class life and the universal 'middle-grade' struggle for identity without making it a heavy 'issue book.'
Gavin is a young Black boy starting third grade at a new school. He is desperate to fit in with the 'cool' group led by Richard, but his life is complicated when he has to take care of his Great Aunt Rose's high-maintenance dog, Carlotta. The dog is anything but tough, and Gavin is terrified his new friends will see him with her. The story follows his attempts to maintain his image while dealing with a bully, a loyal but 'uncool' best friend, and the responsibilities of pet care.
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