
A parent might reach for this book when their child is singularly focused on getting something they desperately want. It is a playful guide to the art of persuasion, perfect for a child who will not take no for an answer. The story follows a young girl's relentless and often hilarious campaign to convince her parents to let her get her ears pierced. She tries everything from logical reasoning to dramatic pleas, capturing the intense desire kids feel for things that help them define their identity. This book is a wonderful tool for talking about perseverance, family negotiation, and understanding different points of view. It normalizes a child's big feelings about wanting to grow up, making it a great choice for families navigating these small but significant milestones.
The primary topic is a child's desire for bodily autonomy in a very mild, age-appropriate form and navigating parent-child conflict over rules and appearance. It is a secular, contemporary family setting. The resolution is realistic and hopeful: her parents finally agree when she is a bit older, framing it as a matter of timing, not a permanent 'no'.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 6-year-old who has just been told 'no' for the tenth time about getting a pet, a new toy, or staying up late. This book is for the child who is beginning to develop sophisticated arguments and feels deep frustration when their logic is not immediately accepted by adults.
No prep needed. The book can be read cold. The parents in the book are loving and firm, providing a good model. The arguments the girl uses are so common that they will feel immediately familiar to most parents and children. The parent hears, 'But everyone else has one!' or 'It is not fair!' or witnesses a dramatic flop onto the floor after a request has been denied. The child is fixated on one specific 'want'.
A younger child (5) will enjoy the repetition, the funny illustrations, and the girl's dramatic expressions. An older child (7-8) will better understand the nuances of her arguments, recognize the humor in her persuasive tactics, and relate to the feeling of wanting to be more grown-up.
Unlike many books about wanting something, this one focuses almost exclusively on the process of persuasion. It is a masterclass in a child's rhetorical strategies. Judith Viorst's classic, witty voice makes the child's internal monologue the star, which is highly relatable for kids and amusing for parents. It is less about the 'thing' and more about the 'wanting'.
A young, unnamed female protagonist launches an elaborate, multifaceted campaign to persuade her parents to allow her to get her ears pierced. She presents a series of arguments, ranging from logical (everyone else has them) and emotional (she'll be the happiest girl in the world) to slightly manipulative (suggesting they are a good health choice). Her parents offer counterarguments like pain, infection, and her being too young. The narrative is driven entirely by her monologue and imagined scenarios.
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