
A parent would reach for this book when their child is beginning to notice that a parent or loved one is struggling with a deep, persistent mental health crisis that cannot be fixed with love or good behavior. Set in the 1970s, it follows Abby as her mother experiences a severe nervous breakdown and attempted suicide, forcing Abby to navigate a world where her primary caregiver is no longer stable. This novel is a powerful tool for middle schoolers and young teens who feel the crushing weight of responsibility for a parent's well-being. It explores themes of shame, resentment, and the difficult process of 'letting go' of the role of the family fixer. While the subject matter is heavy, the book provides a vital mirror for children in similar situations, normalizing their anger and providing a realistic path toward personal resilience and emotional independence.
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The book deals directly and realistically with clinical depression and attempted suicide. It is secular in nature, focusing on the psychological and systemic impact on the family unit. The resolution is realistic rather than 'happily ever after,' emphasizing Abby's personal growth and acceptance of the situation.
A mature 12 to 14 year old who is observant and perhaps feeling burdened by 'adult' problems at home. It is for the child who is starting to distance themselves from a struggling parent and feels guilty about that necessary separation.
Parents should be aware of the suicide attempt scene. It is handled with 1970s-era medical understanding, which may require a conversation about how mental health treatment has evolved since then. This book is best read with an adult nearby to process the intense themes. The trigger moment is often the parent witnessing their child 'acting out' or becoming uncharacteristically cynical as a defense mechanism against a household crisis.
Younger readers (11-12) will focus on Abby's feelings of abandonment and her social rebellion. Older readers (14-15) will better grasp the nuance of the mother's clinical condition and the historical context of the era's 'stifling' expectations for women.
Unlike many modern 'problem novels,' the 1970s setting provides a unique lens on the lack of resources and social stigma surrounding mental health, making the protagonist's isolation feel even more poignant.
Set in the San Francisco Bay Area during the 1970s, the story follows young Abby as she witnesses her mother's mental health deteriorate into a full nervous breakdown. After a suicide attempt, Abby's mother is hospitalized, leaving Abby to grapple with a changing family dynamic, her own burgeoning rebellion, and the realization that her mother's illness is not her fault.
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