
A parent would reach for this book when their child is processing the loss of a parent or loved one, especially if that loss feels recent or difficult to talk about. It is a gentle, contemporary story about Eli, a middle-schooler navigating life after his mother's death from COVID-19. Through the discovery of his mother's secret cooking videos, Eli finds a tangible way to connect with her memory while forging his own path. This story is deeply grounded in the 8 to 12 age experience, focusing on the awkwardness of middle school and the way grief can make a child feel isolated from their peers. It is an excellent choice for families looking to normalize the 'messiness' of grief and show that moving forward doesn't mean forgetting. Parents will appreciate how the book uses a hobby like cooking to provide a healthy outlet for complex emotions.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe mother's death is the central inciting incident, though it occurs prior to the book's start.
The book deals directly with the death of a parent. The approach is realistic and secular, focusing on the day-to-day reality of loss rather than spiritual explanations. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: Eli isn't 'cured' of his sadness, but he has found a way to live with it and honor his mother.
A 10-year-old who feels 'stuck' in their sadness after a loss and needs to see a character who uses a creative outlet to find their voice again. It's perfect for kids who find talking about feelings difficult but expressed themselves through doing.
This is a safe 'cold read,' but parents should be aware that the mentions of the pandemic might trigger specific memories of that era. The recipes included are a great way to bond after reading. A parent might notice their child withdrawing from family activities, becoming obsessive about a specific hobby to avoid social interaction, or showing sudden curiosity about a deceased relative's belongings.
Younger readers (ages 8-9) will focus on the cooking challenges and the technical aspects of Eli's journey. Older readers (ages 11-12) will better grasp the nuance of his social anxiety and the bittersweet nature of his digital connection to his mom.
Unlike many grief books that focus on the immediate aftermath, Eli Over Easy looks at the 'long tail' of grief and the unique way technology (the videos) can bridge the gap between the living and the dead.
Eli is grieving his mother, who died during the COVID-19 pandemic. While exploring her old laptop, he finds a series of 'how-to' cooking videos she recorded. Eli decides to recreate these recipes, leading to a journey of culinary discovery, social reconnection, and emotional processing. The story follows his attempts in the kitchen and his changing relationships with his father and friends.
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