Emma's Yucky Brother

For the child adjusting to a new sibling who isn't what they expected. This story validates the messy, frustrating reality of building a bond with an adopted brother.

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About This Book

Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the messy reality of a new sibling, especially one through adoption or foster care, and is feeling more frustration than 'brotherly love.' It validates the complicated emotions that arise when a new family member doesn't immediately fit the dream of a perfect playmate. Emma is excited to adopt four-year-old Max, but she soon discovers that he is loud, messy, and 'yucky.' The story beautifully handles themes of patience, empathy, and the slow process of building trust. It is a perfect choice for parents who want to normalize a child's negative feelings toward a sibling while showing that these feelings don't mean they won't eventually bond. This realistic take on family expansion helps children understand that love is a choice and a practice, not just an instant feeling.

Adoption & Foster Care Family & Siblings Anger & Frustration Love & Family New Sibling Patience & Waiting Sibling Rivalry Empathy & Kindness

What Parents Should Know

Sad ThemesMild

Max's initial difficulty adjusting to his new home may be slightly sad for sensitive children.

Sensitive Topics

The book deals directly with the adoption of an older child. It is secular and realistic, focusing on the behavioral and emotional adjustments of both the biological child and the adopted child. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: they aren't 'best friends' yet, but they are a family.