
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling with the push and pull of independence or navigating a friendship that has drastically changed after a long absence. It is a poignant exploration of how families react to trauma and the complex reality of loving people who have deeply disappointed us. The story follows Emmy, whose childhood best friend Oliver returns ten years after being kidnapped by his own father. While Oliver must reconcile his life in hiding with the truth of his abduction, Emmy must confront her own parents' stifling overprotectiveness, which was born from the fear of losing her too. It is a realistic, emotionally resonant novel for older teens that explores the nuance of forgiveness and the courage required to define oneself outside of a family crisis. Parents will appreciate its mature handling of healthy boundaries and the slow, earned process of rebuilding trust.
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Sign in to write a reviewTeen romance including kissing and references to sexual desire/physical intimacy.
Occasional use of profanity consistent with contemporary young adult fiction.
Brief scenes involving underage drinking at parties.
Characters must process the fact that a kidnapper was also a seemingly loving father.
The book deals directly with parental abduction and the psychological fallout of gaslighting. The approach is secular and deeply realistic, focusing on the emotional labor of reunions rather than the procedural elements of the crime. The resolution is hopeful but acknowledges that healing is an ongoing process.
A high schooler who feels "smothered" by well-meaning parents or a teen who has experienced a major disruption in a close friendship and feels the pressure to go back to how things used to be.
Parents should be aware of some mild sexual content and underage drinking. Read the scenes where Emmy confronts her parents about their fear to understand the teen perspective on overparenting. A parent might see their teen pulling away or lying about their whereabouts to gain basic autonomy, mirroring Emmy's frustration with her parents' GPS tracking and strict curfews.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the romance and the mystery of Oliver's past; older teens (17-18) will resonate more with the themes of impending adulthood and breaking free from family expectations.
Unlike many kidnapping stories that focus on the trauma of the event, this book uniquely focuses on the "after," specifically how the community and the friends left behind were permanently altered by a crime they didn't personally experience.
Ten years after being kidnapped by his father, Oliver returns to his hometown and his next-door neighbor, Emmy. The story alternates between Oliver's adjustment to a mother he doesn't remember and Emmy's struggle to escape the suffocating grip of her parents, who have lived in fear ever since Oliver went missing. As they reconnect, they must navigate the gap between who they were as children and who they have become.
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