
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to differentiate between complex social feelings like envy, shame, or guilt and needs a concrete way to name what they are experiencing. While many books focus only on the core emotions like happy and sad, this guide introduces a broader spectrum of twelve feelings through the eyes of a young girl navigating her daily life. It provides a shared vocabulary for parents and children to discuss moments that might otherwise lead to tantrums or withdrawal. Ideal for the preschool and kindergarten years, the book uses simple, capital-letter text and relatable scenarios to transform abstract concepts into manageable tools for emotional regulation. It is a practical resource for families looking to move beyond basic labels and build a more sophisticated emotional intelligence foundation.
The book is secular and realistic. It touches on social discomforts like shame and guilt in a gentle, non-punitive way, focusing on the internal sensation rather than external discipline.
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Sign in to write a reviewA preschooler who has started school and is experiencing 'social' emotions for the first time, such as feeling jealous of a friend's birthday gift or embarrassed by a playground mishap.
This book can be read cold, but parents may want to bookmark the specific sections on 'Envy' or 'Shame' if those are currently presenting as behavioral challenges at home. A parent might choose this after witnessing their child have a 'meltdown' that seems to stem from a complex source, such as a child lashing out because they feel guilty about a broken rule but don't have the words to say so.
A 3-year-old will focus on the color-coding and the basic faces in the illustrations. A 6-year-old will begin to connect the specific scenarios to their own social interactions at school.
Unlike many 'feelings' books that stop at the 'Big Five' (Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, Disgust), this title bravely tackles more nuanced social emotions like tenderness and envy, which are often harder for parents to explain without sounding preachy.
The book functions as a comprehensive emotional dictionary for the 3 to 6 age group. It follows a young female protagonist through various vignettes where she experiences twelve distinct emotions: anger, joy, sadness, fear, disgust, surprise, envy, guilt, shame, calmness, tenderness, and love. Each emotion is paired with a specific, everyday example (like feeling envy over a toy or guilt after a mistake) and offers a simple management tool or perspective shift to help the child process the feeling.
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