
A parent might reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to reconcile their individual desires with the rigid expectations of a traditional or religious household. It is especially poignant for families navigating the bridge between the high school years and the independence of college. The story follows Ada, a first-generation Nigerian American, as she navigates her freshman year at a Historically Black College while reflecting on a childhood defined by a strict father and an absent, struggling mother. Through dance and self-discovery, Ada begins to reclaim her body and her voice. While the book handles heavy themes like trauma and sexual exploration, it does so with a raw honesty that validates the teen experience. It is a powerful choice for older teens (14 and up) who need to see that it is possible to honor one's history while choosing a different future.
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Sign in to write a reviewExploration of queer identity and sexual awakening; includes references to sexual assault.
Tensions between first-generation expectations and American individualist culture.
Some profanity consistent with older YA literature.
Detailed references to a parent's drug use and its impact on the family.
The book deals directly and honestly with addiction, religious trauma, sexual assault, and queer identity. The approach is secular and deeply realistic. The resolution is not a neat happy ending but a hopeful, authentic beginning of a self-determined life.
A high school senior or college freshman who feels 'stifled' by their environment and is looking for a roadmap on how to define themselves outside of their parents' gaze. It will resonate with those in the arts or those navigating dual cultural identities.
Parents should be aware of scenes involving sexual exploration and a specific flashback regarding sexual trauma. The book is best read by teens who have a level of maturity, or as a co-read to facilitate discussions about consent and autonomy. A parent might notice their child becoming increasingly withdrawn, secretive about their interests, or struggling with the transition to a more independent life stage.
A 14 year old will likely focus on the friction with parents and the desire for freedom. An 18 year old will more deeply internalize the nuances of identity, the complexity of the mother-daughter bond, and the reclamation of the physical self.
The use of verse allows for a visceral, rhythmic exploration of the body that prose might miss. It specifically captures the intersection of West African heritage, the Black American college experience, and the internal life of a queer woman in a way few other YA novels do.
Ada is a first generation Nigerian American woman entering her freshman year at an HBCU. The narrative moves between her present college experience and her past, detailng her upbringing by a dogmatic, strict father and a mother battling addiction. In college, Ada discovers dance as a means of reclamation and begins to explore her sexuality and personal boundaries.
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