
A parent might reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to process a family crisis or living with a caregiver facing severe mental health challenges. It speaks to the heavy burden of 'parentification,' where a child feels responsible for an adult's well-being. The story follows Mazzy, a young girl navigating the mundane trials of adolescence, such as body image and neighborly crushes, while secretly managing her mother's paralyzing clinical depression following a family tragedy. While the subject matter is profound, the narrative is punctuated with humor and the awkward realities of growing up. It is best suited for readers aged 12 and up who are ready for a realistic, secular exploration of grief, resilience, and the slow process of healing. Parents may choose it to validate a child's feelings of isolation and to open a door for honest conversations about mental health.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe plot revolves around the lingering grief from a significant loss in the family.
Explores the complex feelings of resentment and love toward a parent who is failing to provide.
The book deals directly with clinical depression and grief. It is secular in nature and presents a very realistic, sometimes gritty, depiction of how mental illness affects every member of a family. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in the reality that healing is a long, non-linear process.
A middle or high schooler who feels they have to 'be the adult' in their home, or a student who is witnessing a friend withdraw from social life due to family secrets.
Parents should be aware that the book deals with the aftermath of a significant death (revealed later in the book). It can be read cold, but be ready to discuss the symptoms of depression. Parents may find it difficult to read about a mother who is unable to care for her child's basic needs. A specific trigger may be the realization of how much Mazzy has hidden from the world to protect her mother's dignity.
Younger teens will relate to Mazzy's social anxieties and physical insecurities, while older teens will more deeply grasp the systemic failure of the adults in her life and the complexity of her mother's illness.
Unlike many 'problem novels,' this book uses a unique, sparse writing style and humor to balance the intense themes of neglect and depression, making the heavy subject matter accessible without being melodramatic.
Mazzy is essentially living as the sole adult in her household. Her father has left, and her mother is incapacitated by severe depression following a family tragedy. Mazzy spends her days managing the house, observing her neighbors, and navigating the typical insecurities of puberty. The narrative slowly peels back the layers of the past to reveal the specific loss that broke the family structure.
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