Fair Shares

Reach for this book when your child is caught in a loop of comparing what they have to others, often shouting the familiar refrain: That's not fair! It is a powerful tool for shifting the conversation from equal (everyone getting the same) to equitable (everyone getting what they need to succeed). Through a simple metaphor involving a tall bear and a small hare, the story helps children internalize the idea that different needs require different solutions. The book follows a Bear and a Hare who both want to reach pears on a high branch. By giving them both the same sized chair, one can reach while the other cannot. It is only when the chairs are adjusted to fit their individual heights that both animals are happy. This gentle approach makes complex concepts of justice and empathy accessible for preschoolers and early elementary students, offering parents a calm way to address sibling rivalry and classroom competition.