
For a child frustrated by plans that have gone completely wrong, this book is a perfect remedy. It follows Farmer Palmer, a cheerful pig, and his donkey, Ebenezer, on a journey home from the market that turns into a series of comical disasters. A wheel falls off, a storm hits, and lightning strikes their wagon! Throughout it all, Farmer Palmer remains unfailingly optimistic and resourceful, turning each calamity into a new part of the adventure. For children ages 4 to 7, this story is a wonderful, humorous model of resilience. It gently teaches that a bad day doesn't have to stay bad and that a positive attitude can transform a catastrophe into a memorable experience.
There are no sensitive topics. The series of disasters are presented as slapstick comedy rather than genuine threats. The resolution is entirely hopeful and positive.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 4 to 6 year old who gets easily frustrated when things don't go according to plan. This child may have a low tolerance for small setbacks (a spilled drink, a broken toy) and tends to declare that the whole day is ruined. This book models a radically different, more resilient response.
The book can be read cold. Parents should be aware that William Steig's vocabulary is more sophisticated than in many picture books (e.g., "calamitous," "downpour"). This offers a great opportunity for vocabulary building but may require brief explanations for younger listeners. The scene with the lightning strike is comical and not frightening. A parent has just witnessed their child have a meltdown over a seemingly minor problem. The child is crying, "It's ruined! Everything is ruined!" The parent is looking for a way to introduce the concept of 'rolling with the punches' in a gentle, humorous way.
A younger child (4-5) will delight in the physical comedy and the repetitive structure of "problem, then solution." They will grasp the basic idea of not giving up. An older child (6-7) will better appreciate Farmer Palmer's witty optimism, the cleverness of his solutions, and the deeper theme of how attitude shapes experience. They will also get more out of Steig's rich use of language.
Unlike many books about resilience that focus on validating a child's frustration before moving to a solution, this book jumps straight to modeling an unflappably positive and proactive response. The sheer number and absurdity of the problems Farmer Palmer faces, and his refusal to be discouraged by any of them, is what makes this story unique. It’s not about one big problem, but a chain of them, which feels very true to the nature of a "very bad day."
Farmer Palmer, a pig, and his donkey, Ebenezer, experience a cascade of calamities on their trip home from the market. They lose a wheel, get caught in a thunderstorm, get stuck in the mud, and their wagon is ultimately destroyed by lightning. With each setback, Farmer Palmer remains cheerful and resourceful, framing each disaster as part of an adventure, and they eventually make it home, tired but happy.
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