
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is exploring the complexities of gender identity or navigating the painful reality of online harassment. It is an essential choice for families looking to support a child who feels they inhabit the margins of traditional categories and are searching for a sense of worthiness in their first romantic experiences. The story follows Felix Funk, a Black, queer, transgender teen who dreams of getting into a prestigious summer arts program while dealing with a transphobic anonymous bully. Through Felix's journey, the book addresses deep emotional themes of self-confidence, the fear of being unlovable, and the resilience required to stand up for oneself. It offers a realistic, empathetic look at the modern high school experience, including the impact of social media. Parents will appreciate the book's honesty and its powerful message that everyone, regardless of their identity, deserves a happy ending. It is most appropriate for readers aged 14 and up due to its mature themes and language.
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Sign in to write a reviewFrequent transphobic harassment, deadnaming, and some racist microaggressions.
Contains strong language appropriate for a realistic YA setting.
Teen romance including kissing and discussions of attraction.
Exploration of feeling unlovable and the fear of rejection from family.
The book deals directly and intensely with transphobia, deadnaming, and cyberbullying. The approach is secular and highly realistic. While the protagonist experiences significant pain, the resolution is profoundly hopeful and affirming of his identity and future.
A 16-year-old artist who feels like they are constantly explaining themselves to the world and needs to see a protagonist who transitions from feeling like a 'burden' to a 'masterpiece.'
Parents should be aware of a scene involving an online hate group (transmisogyny and racism) and several instances of strong language. The book can be read cold but offers great opportunities to discuss digital citizenship and healthy boundaries. A parent might choose this after seeing their child receive hurtful comments on social media or if their child has recently expressed that they are questioning their gender identity and feel isolated.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the romance and the drama of the mystery bully. Older teens (17-18) will likely connect more deeply with the nuance of Felix's shifting labels and the pressure of college applications.
Unlike many trans stories that focus solely on the trauma of transition, Felix Ever After explores the intersectionality of being Black and trans while focusing on the joy of finding a label (demiboy) that finally fits perfectly.
Felix Funk is a talented artist attending a competitive summer program in NYC. He is Black, queer, and transgender, and while he is proud of his identity, he fears he is too many things at once to ever find true love. When a transphobic gallery of his pre-transition photos is posted anonymously, Felix hatches a plan for revenge that leads to unexpected self-discovery and a surprising romance with his best friend Ezra.
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