
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with family changes, feeling 'second best' compared to a sibling or cousin, or navigating the complexities of a bicultural identity. It is a powerful tool for families managing the arrival of a relative or a grandparent's illness, providing a mirrors-and-windows approach to empathy and shared heritage. Natalie Dias Lorenzi weaves a dual perspective story about Hiroshi, who moves from Japan to the United States, and his cousin Skye, who feels her American life is being disrupted by her grandfather's cancer diagnosis and Hiroshi's arrival. This gentle, realistic novel is perfect for children ages 8 to 12. It offers a roadmap for how shared traditions, like the Japanese art of kite making, can mend fractured relationships and build bridges across language barriers and resentment. Parents will appreciate how it validates the difficult emotions of jealousy and grief while modeling a path toward reconciliation and cultural pride.
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Sign in to write a reviewCharacters face microaggressions and language barriers in a school setting.
Cousins deal with intense jealousy and occasional mean-spirited competitiveness.
The book deals directly with terminal illness (cancer) and the death of a grandparent. The approach is secular and grounded in realistic family dynamics. It also addresses the pain of estrangement between a parent and a grandparent. The resolution is bittersweet and realistic: while the grandfather passes away, the cousins find a hopeful path forward through their shared art.
A 10-year-old who feels pushed aside by family circumstances, or a child in a multigenerational household who is trying to balance their own interests with family expectations.
Parents should be aware of the scenes involving the grandfather's physical decline, which may be sensitive for children who have recently lost a loved one. The book can be read cold but offers great opportunities to discuss family history. A child expressing resentment toward a sick relative or a newly arrived family member, perhaps saying, 'I wish they never moved here.'
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the cool kite-fighting mechanics and the school-life struggles. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuanced cultural shame Skye feels and the deep impact of the grandfather's legacy.
Unlike many 'immigrant stories,' this uses a dual-POV to show both the person arriving and the person receiving, highlighting that transition is hard for everyone involved.
The story follows two cousins, Skye (American-born) and Hiroshi (living in Japan), whose lives collide when their grandfather, GrandPa, is diagnosed with terminal cancer. Hiroshi's family moves to Virginia so GrandPa can receive treatment. Skye, an avid soccer player, feels her 'Americanness' is threatened by the sudden influx of Japanese tradition, while Hiroshi struggles with the loss of his home and the daunting task of learning English. The tension culminates in their shared passion for rokkaku (Japanese kite fighting), a hobby taught to them by their grandfather.
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