Reach for this book when your teenager is wrestling with questions about their gender identity or feeling like they do not fit into the traditional boxes of male and female. It is a vital resource for parents whose children are expressing a sense of being different or experiencing the heavy weight of social and internal expectations regarding masculinity and femininity. The story follows Brendan, a high school wrestler who has a girlfriend but secretly dreams of being a girl. Written as a novel in verse, it explores the raw intersection of self-discovery, shame, and the search for authentic connection. While the emotional themes are intense, including loneliness and fear, the book ultimately offers a path toward self-acceptance. It is most appropriate for older teens who are ready for a realistic, secular, and deeply honest look at the transgender experience and the complexities of the gender spectrum.
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Sign in to write a reviewIncludes depictions of teenage sexual pressure and sexual exploration.
Contains strong language and some slurs used in a bullying context.
Depicts transphobia and the social marginalization of LGBTQ+ individuals.
The book deals directly and secularly with gender identity, dysphoria, and sexual health. It includes depictions of self-harm, transphobia, and risky sexual behavior. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on the beginning of a journey toward self-acceptance rather than a tidy happy ending.
A 15-year-old who feels like they are performing a role for their family and peers and needs a vocabulary for the 'wrongness' they feel about their assigned gender. It is for the reader who prefers the sparse, high-impact emotionality of poetry over dense prose.
Parents should preview the scenes involving Brendan’s experimentation with clothing and the moments of intense self-loathing or self-harm. The book is best read alongside a parent or with a therapist if the teen is currently in crisis. A parent might reach for this after finding hidden clothing, noticing their child withdrawing from gendered activities (like sports), or hearing their child express intense dislike for their own body.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the relationship drama and the 'secret,' while older teens (17-18) will better grasp the nuances of the gender spectrum and the systemic challenges trans people face.
The three-way perspective allows the reader to see not just the person transitioning, but the ripple effects on those who love them, all captured through the visceral, immediate medium of verse.
Freakboy is a verse novel told through three perspectives: Brendan, who is struggling with gender dysphoria; Vanessa, his girlfriend who senses something is wrong; and Angel, a trans woman who works at a local youth center. The story tracks Brendan's internal conflict as he tries to maintain his hyper-masculine image as a wrestler while privately exploring his female identity.
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