Friend Is Not a Verb

A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to articulate the complex grief of a family breakup or feels like an outsider in their own social circle. This story follows sixteen-year-old Hen as he navigates the messy transition of his parents' divorce, the high-pressure environment of a summer arts camp, and the vulnerable process of discovering his own musical voice. It is a deeply empathetic look at how adolescents use creative outlets to process trauma and build a sense of self that is independent of their family unit. While the book touches on the pain of separation and the awkwardness of new romance, it maintains a grounded and realistic tone suitable for high schoolers. Parents will appreciate the way it validates a teen's need for autonomy while emphasizing the importance of genuine connection. It is an excellent choice for encouraging a child to move beyond surface-level interactions and find their 'people.'