
Reach for this book when your child is caught in a loop of self-criticism or comparing their physical appearance to others. It is a perfect choice for those days when a child feels 'too much' of something, whether that is too tall, too clumsy, or just generally uncomfortable in their own skin. The story follows Edward the giraffe, who is deeply embarrassed by his long, necky neck and tries everything to hide it until he meets a turtle with the opposite problem. Through hilarious illustrations and relatable internal monologue, the book explores themes of self-acceptance and the power of perspective. It is ideal for children ages 3 to 8, offering a gentle way to discuss body image and self-esteem. Parents will appreciate how it uses humor to de-escalate feelings of inadequacy, showing that what we perceive as a flaw might actually be exactly what someone else is looking for.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with body dysmorphia and self-loathing in a metaphorical sense through animal characters. The approach is secular and highly comedic, with a hopeful resolution that focuses on utility and friendship rather than a magical change in appearance.
A child who has recently expressed a desire to change something about their body, or a student who feels 'different' from their peers and has begun to withdraw socially due to self-consciousness.
The book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to use different 'voices' for the giraffe and the turtle to maximize the humor of their banter. A parent hears their child say, 'I hate my [body part]' or 'I wish I looked like everyone else.'
Younger children (3-5) will enjoy the physical comedy of the scarves and the hidden giraffe. Older children (6-8) will resonate more deeply with the satirical tone and the psychological reality of being your own harshest critic.
Jory John avoids the 'everyone is beautiful' cliché by focusing on 'everyone is useful.' It uses deadpan humor and Lane Smith's distinct artistic style to make the heavy topic of self-hatred feel approachable and silly rather than didactic.
Edward the giraffe is incredibly self-conscious about his long, patterned, 'stretchy' neck. He tries hiding it behind trees, burying it in bushes, and dressing it up in bunches of scarves. His internal monologue is a comedic but poignant list of grievances until he meets Cyrus, a turtle who finds his own neck too short to reach a delicious-looking peach. Together, they realize their perceived physical limitations are actually strengths when they help one another.
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