
Reach for this book when your child seems to be pushing people away with anger or 'bad behavior' to avoid being hurt. It is a powerful tool for kids who struggle with vulnerability or those who feel like they do not fit into a traditional family structure. The story follows Gilly, a brilliant but defiant foster child who maintains a tough persona while dreaming of being rescued by her biological mother. Through Gilly's journey with the unconventional Trotter family, the book explores themes of prejudice, the complexity of love, and the realization that 'happy endings' are often messy and unexpected. It is best suited for ages 10 to 14, providing a realistic look at how family is built through action rather than just blood. Parents will appreciate the nuanced approach to character growth, where change is hard-won and bittersweet rather than magical.
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Sign in to write a reviewGilly uses racial slurs and prejudice initially to distance herself from others; it is challenged.
Themes of parental abandonment and the pain of the foster care system.
The protagonist steals and manipulates others to achieve her goals.
The book handles foster care, parental abandonment, and racism directly and realistically. The approach is secular but deeply moral. The resolution is famously bittersweet: Gilly does not get to stay with the people she loves, making it a realistic rather than a fairy-tale ending.
A middle-schooler who feels misunderstood or feels they have to be 'perfect' or 'tough' to survive. It is also excellent for children who have experienced displacement or non-traditional family structures.
Parents should be aware of 1970s era language, including some mild profanity and racially charged terms used by Gilly in her initial ignorance. It is best to read this with the child to discuss why Gilly says these things and how her perspective shifts. A parent might choose this after seeing their child use sarcasm or 'acting out' as a shield against intimacy, or if a child is expressing deep curiosity or frustration regarding their own family history.
Younger readers (10) focus on Gilly's cleverness and the 'mean' things she does. Older readers (13 to 14) will better grasp the tragedy of her mother's neglect and the profound sacrifice of the Trotters.
Unlike many foster care stories that end in a permanent 'happily ever after' adoption, Paterson chooses a path of 'true' belonging that doesn't ignore the messy legal and biological realities of the system.
Gilly Hopkins is a highly intelligent, defensive eleven-year-old who has cycled through numerous foster homes. Sent to live with Maime Trotter, a large, semi-literate, and deeply loving woman, Gilly initially scorns her new environment, which includes a shy younger boy named William Ernest and a blind neighbor, Mr. Randolph. Gilly schemes to escape to her biological mother in California by stealing money, but her plan backfires, leading to a heartbreaking realization about her mother's true nature and the value of the family she tried to leave behind.
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