
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with a lack of instant connection, whether it is with a new sibling, a peer, or a caregiver. It is an ideal resource for children who need to understand that love and bonding sometimes require deliberate effort, patience, and the support of a community. The story follows baby gorilla Yola and her mother, Nadiri, as zoo staff step in to facilitate a bond that did not come naturally at first. Through beautiful photography and a narrative rooted in zoological science, the book explores themes of empathy, perseverance, and the biological foundations of family. It is particularly suited for children aged 8 to 12 who are interested in veterinary science or animal behavior, offering a realistic yet heartwarming look at how relationships can be nurtured and mended over time. It provides a safe space to discuss the fact that families do not always look or act perfectly from day one.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book addresses maternal neglect/detachment directly but within a secular, biological context. It explains that Nadiri herself was human-raised, which impacted her parenting skills. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, showing that bonds can be built even if they aren't instinctual.
An upper-elementary student who loves animals but is also sensitive to social dynamics. It is perfect for a child in a foster or adoptive family, or an older sibling who felt 'replaced' by a new baby and needs to see that love is a learned behavior.
Read cold. The back matter is excellent for answering the 'how' and 'why' questions that science-minded kids will inevitably ask. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'Why doesn't that person like me?' or if a child is struggling to connect with a new member of the household.
Younger children (8-9) will focus on the 'cuteness' of Yola and the drama of the keepers' roles. Older children (11-12) will better grasp the psychological implications of Nadiri's upbringing and the complexity of animal conservation.
Unlike many animal books that anthropomorphize feelings, this uses documented behavioral science to explain emotions, making the 'happy ending' feel earned rather than magical.
The book chronicles the first year of Yola, a western lowland gorilla born at Seattle's Woodland Park Zoo. When her mother, Nadiri, fails to show immediate maternal instincts, the human keepers must step in to raise Yola while simultaneously teaching Nadiri how to be a mother. The narrative follows the meticulous process of supervised visits, physical bonding exercises, and the eventual successful integration of Yola into the gorilla troop.
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