
Reach for this book when your preteen is feeling the sting of being the 'odd one out' in a friend group or is struggling with the high expectations of being the responsible sibling. Judy Blume masterfully captures the complex dynamics of three-way friendships and the quiet burden of being the gifted, reliable child in a family dealing with a disruptive relative. It is a comforting and normalizing read for children ages 10 to 14 who are navigating the transition into middle school social circles. The story follows Rachel Robinson, a high-achieving student whose world is upended when her rebellious brother is expelled and returns home. Between family tension and shifting loyalties among her two best friends, Rachel must learn that it is okay not to be perfect. Parents will appreciate the book's honesty about sibling rivalry and the realistic portrayal of how divorce and family stress impact a child's sense of security. It is an excellent tool for opening conversations about setting boundaries and managing peer pressure.
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The book deals with sibling conflict, academic pressure, and the aftermath of divorce. The approach is direct and secular, typical of Blume's realistic fiction. The resolution is realistic rather than perfectly happy: Rachel learns to accept that she cannot control her brother or her friends, but she can advocate for her own needs.
A 12-year-old 'overachiever' who feels overlooked at home or a child who is struggling to navigate the transition from a duo to a trio in their social life.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the portrayal of the 'problem child' (Charles) and how his behavior impacts Rachel's mental health. No specific scenes require censoring, but the emotional weight of family arguments is palpable. A parent might see their child withdrawing into schoolwork or becoming overly anxious about grades as a way to compensate for family chaos or social rejection.
Younger readers (10-11) will focus on the friendship drama and the fear of being left out. Older readers (13-14) will better grasp the nuance of Rachel's identity crisis and the burden of expectations.
Unlike many stories that focus on the 'rebel,' this book centers on the 'good' sibling, validating the stress and resentment that come with that role.
Rachel Robinson is a highly intelligent, musically gifted seventh grader who prides herself on having everything under control. However, her stable world is threatened on two fronts: her older brother, Charles, has been expelled from boarding school and brings his volatile energy back into their home, and her long-term friendship with Stephanie is complicated by the arrival of Alison. The narrative explores the delicate balance of a three-way friendship and the internal pressure Rachel feels to remain the 'perfect' child while her parents focus on her brother's behavioral issues.
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