
Reach for this book when your child is navigating the quiet, often confusing realization that they might be different from their peers, especially in a sports or school environment where fitting in feels mandatory. It is an essential choice for a middle schooler who loves athletics but feels a disconnect between their public persona and their internal identity. The story follows Silas, a baseball-obsessed sixth grader who discovers the history of Glenn Burke, the MLB player who invented the high five and was also gay. This discovery becomes a mirror for Silas as he processes his own coming out process. Through the lens of baseball history and middle school friendships, Phil Bildner explores themes of bravery, self-acceptance, and the fear of rejection. The book is emotionally resonant and age-appropriate for the 10-14 range, offering a realistic look at the anxiety of being 'the first' in one's social circle to share a personal truth. Parents will appreciate the way it models supportive adult-child relationships while acknowledging the very real social stakes of middle school life.
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The book addresses sexual identity and the history of homophobia in sports directly but with a middle-grade sensibility. It is a secular approach focused on social and internal acceptance. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, showing that while not everyone may react perfectly, the protagonist finds his tribe.
A 12-year-old athlete who feels a 'clash' between their love of sports culture and their evolving identity, needing to know that those two worlds can coexist.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the historical context of Glenn Burke, including the discrimination he faced, as Silas deals with the weight of this history. The book can be read cold but offers great entry points for talks about 'locker room talk' and inclusion. A parent might notice their child becoming unusually withdrawn after practice or expressing fear that their teammates won't like them anymore if they change their interests or personality.
Younger readers (10) will focus on the friendship dynamics and the 'detective' aspect of the history project. Older readers (13-14) will more deeply feel the internal pressure of Silas's identity crisis and the nuance of his social risk-taking.
Unlike many LGBTQ+ stories that focus on romance, this is specifically about identity within the context of sports and history, making it uniquely accessible to 'sporty' kids who might otherwise resist internal character dramas.
Silas Wade is a sixth-grade baseball standout who lives and breathes the game. For a school biography project, he chooses Glenn Burke, the 1970s Los Angeles Dodgers player credited with the first high five. As Silas researches Burke's life as a gay man in professional sports, he begins to see his own reflection in Burke's story. The novel follows Silas as he navigates team dynamics, a changing friendship with his best friend Zoey, and the decision to come out to his family and teammates.
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