
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling with intense social anxiety, agoraphobia, or the feeling that they must be 'fixed' to be worthy of friendship. The story follows Solomon, a sixteen year old who has not left his house in three years, and Lisa, an ambitious peer who decides to 'cure' him as a way to guarantee her admission into a top psychology program. It is a nuanced look at the ethics of friendship, the reality of living with mental illness, and the importance of personal agency. Parents will appreciate how the book balances heavy themes with a witty, geeky charm. It avoids easy clichés about mental health, instead focusing on the messy boundaries of teenage relationships. While it deals with panic attacks and the pressure to conform, it ultimately celebrates the idea that while we all need support, no one is a project to be solved. It is a vital read for fostering empathy and discussing the difference between helping someone and manipulating them.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepicts debilitating panic attacks and the isolation of agoraphobia.
The protagonist's friend has a selfish motive for the friendship, which creates ethical tension.
Discussion of teenage attraction and some kissing.
The book handles agoraphobia and panic disorders with a direct, secular, and deeply realistic lens. It addresses homosexuality (Solomon is gay) as a settled part of his identity rather than a conflict point. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: Solomon does not magically 'get better,' but he gains the tools and motivation to start the work.
A high schooler who feels like an outsider or struggles with the 'performance' of social interaction. It’s perfect for the 'geeky' teen who finds comfort in fandoms and needs to see that mental health struggles don't erase one's personality or value.
Parents should be aware of some profanity and teenage sexual references. Preview the scene of Solomon's initial breakdown (flashback) to understand the weight of his trauma. A parent might see their child withdrawing from social events, expressing extreme fear of school, or hiding behind a screen/hobby to avoid the world.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the friendship dynamics and the 'secret' Lisa is keeping. Older teens (17-18) will better grasp the ethical failures of Lisa's 'savior complex' and the nuances of the psychological recovery process.
Unlike many 'sick-lit' YA novels, this book focuses on the ethics of the 'helper.' It critiques the idea that neurodivergent people are puzzles for 'normal' people to solve.
Solomon Reed is a highly intelligent, agoraphobic teen who has retreated entirely into his home and his hobbies (like Star Trek and board games) after a public panic attack in middle school. Lisa Praytor, a former classmate, tracks him down with the secret goal of befriending and 'curing' him to bolster her college application for a psychology program. She brings her boyfriend Clark into the fold, and an authentic bond forms between the three, though it is built on Lisa’s shaky foundation of deception.
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